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Balance

03 Sunday Mar 2013

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burglary, life, people, social issues, society, stress

I mentioned in passing in my last post that my car was vandalised by petrol thieves this weekend.  I think the sky-rocketing petrol prices here are obviously bringing out the worst in people.  A few events happened this day that ended up with me feeling very blessed and fortunate.  I’d like to share this experience with you.

I was mowing the lawn when I noticed a mother and son approaching me.  She apologised for the intrusion and wondered if I owned a certain make of car.  Yes, I said.  ”Well, I think it has been tampered with.  The petrol door is open, there is petrol all over the road, and my son found a bolt on the road that looks like it came from your car.”

I went down to the road with them and sure enough, the petrol door had been levered open, the petrol cap was gone, and all the petrol siphoned out of my tank, except for the stinking pool that had drained on to the road and down the kerb.  Thankfully, I had parked in front of the sump, so the petrol had run down the road away from the opening, and had not entered the waterways.

Petrol on the road

Because the thieves could not get in through the petrol funnel after they had removed the cap (there is a self-locking mechanism that does not allow anything except a petrol pump into it) they had unscrewed the bung at the bottom of the petrol tank under the car and let the petrol out there.  The things you learn from thieves!!  I would never have known about that.

Thanking the very kind mother and son who had bothered to find out who owned the car and then walk all the way up to my house to come and tell me, I went back into the house in a state of shock to try to find some help.  Coming at the end of a truly awful week, this was the last thing I needed to happen.  What do you do when all your petrol is stolen, there’s hazardous material all over the road, and no knowledge of whom to ask for help?

Back in the house, I phoned the police and made a report.  Then I phoned my insurance agent as I have a roadside assistance package with them.  The insurance agent told me to take pictures of the damage for any potential claim and gave me the number to call for roadside assistance.

I went down to the street to take photographs, and encountered the son, who told me that other cars had also been damaged.

I made an inspection of the street.  It was evidently a good night for the scoundrels.  Several other cars had also been pumped, and a couple of them had their windows smashed as well.  I counted my blessings that hadn’t happened to my car too.

Curiously, I looked at the dashboards of cars that had not been touched.  I noticed that none of those cars had visible petrol gauges (either the dashboard was not visible from the outside through tinted glass, or the petrol gauge dropped to zero when the car was not in use).  I think this is a lesson to take with me when I get another car – make sure people can’t see how much petrol is left in the car from the outside!

Back in the house, I called the roadside assistance number.  This produced no relief.  The snippy girl at the other end told me they didn’t help with that sort of thing and I should call my insurance agent about the claim.  Frustrated, I wondered if my garage could help.  The owner was locking up for they day, but he kindly offered to come up to the house later in the afternoon with some petrol and to help with screwing the bung back into the car.  I was very grateful.  He also advised me to call someone about the petrol spill.

I phoned the council and told them about the petrol spill.  A spill control truck came along within an hour and cleaned it all up, as well as the other spills on the road from the other cars.   The spill control man was very nice, and thanked me sincerely for calling them to clean up the spilled fuel.  He also offered some kind words of sympathy, and reminded me that there are still more good people in the world than bad.  

When the garage owner came to the house, his wife and child were in the car too.  They were on their way to an outing, but they had taken the time out of their day to come and help before doing so.  I was very touched.  He lay on the road and screwed the bung back into the bottom of the petrol tank.  Then he painfully put petrol back into the tank (because of the locking mechanism, the petrol can’s nozzle couldn’t enter the funnel and it had to be dribbled in, bit by bit), and then made sure it was fit to drive.  He advised that it would be good to get the bung sealed so that only a garage could open it in future, and to buy a petrol cap with a lock on it (mine was only a screw-in).  He also told me where I could go to buy the petrol cap (being ignorant about cars, I didn’t really know where to go for it).  The most touching thing was that he refused any payment for his time or the petrol.  What a very kind Samaritan! His kindness of course will be repaid in the fact he now has the most loyal customer on earth – I shall be going back to him forever after now, to get my car repairs and service done.  ;-)  I think I shall also knit the whole family warm hats to wear this winter.  I will also have to track the mother and son down (the son will definitely go to my son’s school) and thank her properly too.

So, having encountered one group of bad people, the balance was restored with the kindness of so many others:  the spill clean-up man, the garage man, and of course, the mother and son who advised me of the theft in the first place.  If she had not made the effort to tell me, I doubt I would have known about the car until the next day…  It would then have been impossible to find any help at all until Monday.  Also, it is due to rain (at last!) all that spilt fuel would have been no good for the waterways as it washed into the storm water system.

I feel very lucky and fortunate that so many good people helped to mitigate the effects of thoughtless criminals who caused a great deal of inconvenience and stress to a lot of people when they woke up to discover their cars vandalised and burgled.  It made me feel much better about the situation, and cope with it in a much less stressed manner.  That’s the true worth of a healthy society isn’t it – just being there to give that little bit of help where it is badly needed.

The spill control man was right.  There are still more good people in the world than bad.  And that is a blessing in itself.  I am so very thankful.

The knitting bucket list

16 Saturday Feb 2013

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bucket list, challenges, goals, Knitting, life

I was looking at the most beautiful knitting on Ravelry the other day.  The project page in question was owned by a lady whose knitting currently spans over 50 years.  She has knitted quite a number of beautifully complex projects that I have intentions to knit too, and I was very envious.  ”I still have time” I thought.  ”There will be time when I don’t have to work, and don’t have kid obligations.” And then I realised that I won’t be here in 50 years.  I don’t have 50 years to knit.  I probably don’t even have 40 years left of my life to knit.  If I’m very unlucky, maybe I only have 20 years left.  Or less!

And then I thought about the most beautiful projects of others that I have seen, knitters who are much younger than me, and have even more years of knitting left in their life than me.  And suddenly, I felt very, very, depressed.  I’m probably experiencing what is a typical mid-life crisis, but just in a knitting sort of way… the meaning of my mortality has finally sunk home.

This realisation has caused me to shift the focus of my knitting.  I feel I can’t fritter my time away knitting projects that I don’t enjoy, or knit just because they’re quick and look sort of cute.  I must use my time wisely and use it to learn and knit the things I actually want to do.  Knitting is such an enjoyable activity.  One can derive an enormous amount of enjoyment out of knitting something even as simple as a garter stitch scarf.  It’s easy to get distracted…  Don’t misunderstand:  I am very proud of a number of the projects that I have knitted.  It’s just that there are things I want to knit that I haven’t got to yet, mainly because they represent significant investments of brain power and time, and I’ve been telling myself until now that I don’t have the time for those projects yet.

So, although there is no cause for me to think that I might ‘kick the bucket’ in the near future, I do think I should start to make a concerted effort to commence that ‘wish list’ alongside the other projects that are really fun too.  (I am pragmatic enough to know that it won’t be possible just to knit only the wish list.)

The beginning list is:

Beads

Celestarium (I don’t think this will be hard to knit, but I haven’t done a pi shawl before, so this is a good learning project. Plus, it’s gorgeous, and I have always wanted a shawl of night sky.  You can see I’ve begun preparation already!)

Moontide, 100% alpaca

Irish Moss (I don’t think you can beat Alice Starmore for beauty in cabled sweaters.)

Aran Duffle Coat  (This will be the perfect replacement to a current commercially bought long cabled cardigan that is looking tatty.  I’m not sure it’s a truly difficult pattern, but it’s in my list of ‘want to do’.)

A lace shawl.  I really want to complete a full lace shawl this year.

If I can include at least the above four projects in among the others I do this year, then I will consider this a year well spent.

(And if you’re wondering what’s happened with those jackets… they’re done.  I’ll show them to you in the next few days when the recipients can model them for me.  I’m very happy with how they’ve turned out.)

The Mumcation

13 Sunday Jan 2013

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Knitting, life, vacation

As mothers, we love and adore our children.  It hurts to leave them, or when they grow up and leave us.  But I don’t think we realise just how much time and energy they take up until they’re not there.

This week, all my little lambs are away.  One back at Uni, the other two on holiday with relatives.  Dropping the youngest off with his aunt was heart-rending.  I do not like to be away from him.  But I figure a week away with his aunt and cousins in a sunnier and more salubrious location than Wellington in summer would be good for him.  I have to go to work, so the alternative is to put him in a summer holiday programme, except my sister was very kind and offered to have him to stay.

Here he is having a whale of a time the day before I left him and drove home.  Far more fun than being stuck in horrid, grey, windy Wellington, don’t you think?  You can see the grin on his face from a mile off!

Summer fun

And this is what I was doing…

Knitting in the sun

Those are the Hermoine’s Everyday Socks in Happy-go-knitty merino/silk sock base.  Now finished.

Anyway, I woke up this morning feeling something wasn’t quite right.  None of the normal morning noises were there to indicate that it was time to wake up!  I got up disgustingly early, and spent an inordinately luxurious amount of time having breakfast and catching up on blogs/news/emails.  Then I realised I did not need to rush off to the market because it was just me this week.  One trip to the supermarket would be fine as I wouldn’t be needing to buy much.  After a nice, long, hot shower, I decided it was time to get to things I did not normally have time for.

I cleaned out the fridge and threw away all items of furry and dubious nature.  The fridge is looking disturbingly empty now.  I thoroughly vacuumed the house.  I started on tidying the mess that is the large boy’s room (hehe, he’s not there to stop me…).  I stared unhappily out the window at the gales and mist… (no lawn mowing of the “hayfield” today).  I edited a pattern.  I did some tidying.  I reorganised my room.  I edited another pattern.  I knitted a bit.  I spent more time on the internet.  I went to the supermarket.

I came home and was shocked and surprised to find the house exactly as I had left it. There were no toys on the floor.  Nothing had moved.  No crumbs had gathered on the carpet while I was out!  The house felt clean.

So now it’s dinner time, and I don’t have to get up and cook dinner!  I can sit here with a glass of wine and a bit of bread and dip and a few slices of cucumber and raw capsicum and call it done!

This is all very nice, but I shall be glad when the two boys get back.  It would get boring after a while I think!

The value of peace

25 Sunday Nov 2012

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Knitting, life, peace, stress, viewpoint, Wellington

Some of you will remember that there was a period when I lived on a rural property.  For varying unhappy reasons, I had to leave that property and move back into the urban jungle.  My fondest wish is to one day be able to move back to a rural environment, and call it home.  Forever.  I will plant a forest around my home, and live miles from the road.  It will be wonderful.

I loved the peace.  I loved the quiet.  By quiet, I mean no machinery or vehicle noise.  No hum of industry, no whoosh of cars, no noisy parties, no second-hand music… there was plenty of animal noise, but that was fine.  At night, you could hear the moreporks (NZ owl) and petrels calling.  Sometimes the sheep, cows and horses had a party at night, and it was quite amusing to hear them carrying on.  It was a Spring thing. You would know if someone came calling because the chickens would tell you.  I loved it.

I am not sure if it was just that I was feeling relaxed and happy there, or whether it was the stimulation of the natural environment I was in, or maybe both factors, but this was also the most creative time for me.  Designs came to mind all the time. It was easy and natural to come up with new concepts for knitting.

Since moving into this urban place, things have been different, and more and more, I appreciate the value of peace.

I’m feeling a little over-excited today because I’ve just endured four hours of loud drilling from the neighbour from hell.  Even though it’s illegal to perform construction activities on a Sunday, and even though I called the council about the noise and the activity twice today (over those four hours), nothing has been done.  Talk about a bloody toothless law (or maybe the Wellington City Council just cannot be bothered to take action about this sort of thing??  If it’s illegal surely there must be action that can be taken?  I have photographic proof.)  And when I confronted the neighbour about it?  He just laughed in my face like I was an idiot.  It makes my blood boil.  He’s just declared war with that action.

This situation has been going on for nearly a year now.  I was very unfortunate that the neighbour put his house on the market at the same time as I moved in to this place.  And the new owners decided that the garden was not good enough, put a chainsaw through the entire garden (literally), including a beautiful, large tree in the backyard.  NOW he’s doing earthworks.  From a technical point of view, I’m fine with the activity during working hours and on Saturday, when it is reasonable to expect people to do noisy work.  But regularly on a Sunday and in the evenings after 7pm?  My friends, that is going way too far.  The disrespect and selfishness of this couple is indescribable.

Perhaps I might have to move.  Again.  But I’d rather not have to do that.

Peace.  It exists on so many levels.  On the grand scale, it’s when war between nations does not exist.  On the smallest, personal scale, it’s the happy and balanced state of the individual.  On every level, it is critical to the health and well being of people and society.  It’s just a pity that it’s becoming harder and harder to find in today’s world.

Will I find the peace I crave so much?  I hope so.  In the meantime, it’s increasingly hard to find the mental space to create.

What would you do if you were in my shoes?

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